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The Real Fighter
One of the greatest
tragedies and dilemmas of our society is that we waste our precious time and
energies on pointless and baseless activities. At times, such stories of
pointless differences, fights, enmities, and animosities are created for which
there seems to be no rational justification. Sometimes this is due to the
slightest non-payment of dues, rights, and responsibilities. While on some
other occasions, it is in the nature of some people to fight with others on
trivial matters even without any reason as they try to impose their opinion on
everyone, even though failures and disenfranchisement in their own lives are a
common story. But I don't know why they try to shape the lives of others. By
attributing their crookedness and irrationality to the desires of their elders,
they try their best to destroy the future of those younger than them. I think
now more than the young generation, our older generation needs to understand
that if one wants to move forward, his whole life and goals are in front of
him, ignoring the time difference, don't get in the way to stop him like an
unnecessary barrier. Don't let your ego, stubbornness, arrogance, lack of
knowledge, and irrationality become a shackle on the necks of others. Build up
the courage to take responsibility for your shortcomings, collapses, and
failures, and do not put the burden of your decline on the shoulders of others.
The differences
in the territorial, linguistic, racial, regional, and era of humanity are the
beauty of this world. Likewise, the differences of human thought and opinion in
many worldly matters related to human life are also the beauty of the world and
the universe. Therefore, any other thinking should be tested on the criterion
of right and wrong instead of personal likes and dislikes. If one cannot
distinguish between right and wrong, he should openly admit his shortcomings or remain silent and neutral at least.
Therefore, in
human relations, one should not try to find a solution to the problems in
conflicts. If someone still cannot digest food without a fight, then he should
think at least that the real fighter is identified by his thinking, strategies,
and fighting style because his real goal is not to fight people, but to fight
the confronting situations and circumstances. He goes through nerve-wracking
hardships, encounters merciless storms, crosses difficult gorges that escape is
nothing short of a miracle. Therefore, one should not start a fight with the
people out of fear of the situation as it may increase the failure, because he may
even temporarily silence the others, but the intensity of the boiling hatred
and rebellion cannot be reduced in this way.
If someone starts fighting because of a
mere difference of opinions, then even no relationship in the world will be
left without a dispute. Everyone will run to bite the other, the horrible eyes
will confront each other, and harvesting and irrigation of hatred and obstinacy
will continue.
There comes the point when every knot
is loosened, every loop is cleaved, and every man bears for his opponent the
pains of hatred and resentment that troubles his life, deprives him of his
sleep, makes him endear the image of death, and hates the face of life. He
searches with his hands the layers of the earth and finds no comfort in
loneliness, nor a helper for worries.
If you still have to fight, then
instead of fighting your people, fight beside them for their rights so that the
relationship is maintained. If a person must fight someone, then let him fight
defending his people, not confronting them, and politely not avenging, and
standing before them in all that comes to harm.
This is the rational basis of a real
fighter. So, this should be taken as an eternal rule the color of which does
not change, its shadow does not disappear, and substance is not
transformed.
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